This weekend I was asked to help out with a friends CNA graduation project. My friend just completed a Certified Nursing Assistant Program, and the class wanted to do a video for their graduation. Since I have some video skills, I was asked to participate and help out with the project. To be perfectly honest, participating in nursing home activities, is a little out of my comfort zone.
I am a big proponent of stretching outside of our comfort level, so I knew I had to “Put my money where my mouth is.” In the end I really enjoyed the day, and my GIVE BACK turned into a rewarding GIFT TO MYSELF…Be sure to watch the video at the end. It ties this whole story all together. Very Powerful!
If you feel you have obstacles overcoming adversity in your life, you have to see this interview. Not only can adversity can be a spring board, but we can learn to be grateful for the obstacles that have helped shaped us to be the person we are today and in the future.
Lyn-Dee Eldridge CPC, CPMC
I was lucky enough to recently make the acquaintance of an extremely dynamic person. Her name is Lyn-Dee Eldridge. She is the author of several books including “Tears of Fears Behind Closed Doors”, and Lyn-Dee is also a co-author of “42 Rules of effective Connections”. She has another book going to print as we speak called “Direct Selling Power- Expert advice to accelerate your business” that she is also a co-author of. All that while working on her series of inspiration called the “Lyn-Dee-izm series.”
During the interview I asked Lyn-Dee to share a little about her back ground. I was shocked to hear how much she has accomplished, and how much she has been through to get where she is at. She has always had the mindset of helping people.
She revealed that her friends and acquaintances would be magnetically drawn to her to share their challenges and their problems. Yet none of them really knew what was going on behind closed doors in her own life. You have to see this! Very Powerful. Continue Reading
What is Your Personal Legend?
I was watching a web interview with Gary Vaynerchuk. Gary V. is the author of “CRUSH IT”, Why Now Is The Time To Cash In on Your Passion. I finished the end of the book and immediately started over on page 1. We live in an era of unmatched opportunity. Gary V. is an evangelist for being authentic, harnessing and monetizing your passion, and hustle. Not hustle in the terms of a scam artist, but hustle in the terms of working your butt off to accomplish what you were truly meant to do.
In this web interview with Gary V. was asked, “How do I find my passion?” He simply said “I have no idea.” It was evident by some of the questions popping up that people were looking for a step by step approach to accomplish their dreams. Gary V. does give some valuable tips on using the online tools available to us in “CRUSH IT.” But the real value comes from a shift in mindset. Gary V. has built of a $60 million dollar business by reinventing the long perceived path to success. Continue Reading
This Video Gave Me Chills. The Go Giver in action. Through giving back these young men are having the time of their lives!
I’ve never felt an obligation to send a video response to a video through youtube. This time I did. That video is exactly what can be accomplished through our video screens, with our keyboard and mouse, through “Tribe Syndication.” All Thing are possible to The Go Giver.
This just expanded my vision of what is possible in my own life. It all starts right here. I have held fast on my vision for the last two years. I’m getting closer and closer everyday. My vision revolved around more time with family. I remind myself of this vision everyday.
The vision was to retire from my job flying helicopters and live on a lake house in Michigan during the summer. I envision our house being the place where all of our family and friends visit and enjoy what the lake has to offer. There is no better place to be than Michigan in the winter.
But the winters are cruel, gray and miserable. I’m not a winter person. So my vision includes traveling around in an RV to warm climates in the winter. I need to add to that vision after watching the video. I truly believe that all things are possible, now that I’ve seen the light with blogging alliances, and tribe syndication. Thanks for the inspiration…The Buried Life!!!
I woke up today really pissed off. It took me a little bit to figure out WHY. The best way to describe it, is to use a bath as an analogy. Would you rather have a cold bath, a lukewarm bath, or a nice hot steamy relaxing bath?
Seems like an easy question but if you dig a little deeper it really relates to self motivation and your life. I’m sure at first glance everyone would say they would rather have the nice hot steamy relaxing bath. I would.
That’s the goal. In terms of the lifestyle, we all strive for the nice hot steamy relaxing bath. We all have a different vision of what that lifestyle would look like.
Why would I rather have a cold bath, or a hot both over the lukewarm bath? The definition of lukewarm is “moderately warm”, but another definition is“lacking conviction”
A lukewarm bath is not too cold to motivate you to get out, but not hot enough to stay in and enjoy the experience. Eventually the water gets too cold and you get out, or you decide to crank up the heat and make it warm and cozy.
The cold bath makes us want to get out. Some people are experiencing the cold bath with a loss of a job or other life situations. Maybe your spouse is working 80 hours a week in three jobs and it’s affecting your family in a negative way. These types of situations seem devastating, but are they really? Depends on how you REACT to them.
The cold bath is a good thing. It makes you search for solutions. The solutions are out there. We have more power to thrive and succeed than ever before in history. The problem lies in a feeling of helplessness. When times are rough we have a hard time seeing the forest through the trees.
What if you were in a helicopter and could see the view above the trees? In other words it only takes the proper mentality to find the knowledge and the skills to turn your computer into an ATM machine.
If you don’t believe me, I can prove it. I would be happy to show you, exactly what it takes to jump out of that cold bath. It takes knowledge and skill of a few online marketing strategies, a few online marketing tools, and oh ya…you have to WORK YOUR ASS OFF!
Ok, I’m sure I just lost a few of you. But if you have the proper mentality to succeed online, you are probably still here. The good news is, if you are in it for the marathon and not the sprint, all that work pays off. And it pays off in a big way.
If you truly are in the cold bath right now, you don’t need the motivation to work your ass off. It comes naturally. It beats the alternative. It just takes faith that you are truly learning the exact right strategies to succeed online.
I can tell you that I’ve struggled for over 15 years learning the right skills. Along that path I’ve made thousands of mistakes and learned from every one of them.
If you are in a lukewarm bath right now, you have a choice to make. You can embrace the lifestyle you have and save a ton of time and money. Or you can decide to get pissed off with your current situation, get the proper online marketing tools, and learn the most effective online marketing strategies.
You see, you can’t just tip your toe and hope you will get rich. Only you can decide where you are at in life? If you have enough motivation, all you need is some skill and some knowledge. And oh ya…you need to take ACTION on that knowledge.
I recently joined forces with with what I call “My Tribe”. In addition to the knowledge, the skill, and the proper mentality for success, you need a network. That is formula for success.
Have you ever noticed that you keep encountering the same results in your life. Maybe you keep falling for the same type of man or woman, but just in a different body? Maybe you fell well short of your goals in 2009? Maybe you’ve read every motivational, self help book on the planet and you know exactly what to do, but for some reason you just fall short of your goals?
Bill Harris of Holosync by Centerpointe says “For any outcome you want there is a certain way of thinking that will get you what you desire.”
The problem lies in what is called your “mind map”. Most people are on autopilot with their thoughts. Thoughts create things. Thoughts lead to actions and more commonly reactions. The solution lies in awareness.
The reason we keep getting the results we are getting is because we keep having the same sub-conscious thoughts. Often times those thoughts lead to sub par results and more frequently cause us to attract harmful results into our lives.
The only way to stop attracting those harmful things into our lives is to become aware. Once we are aware you can do anything. There are no limitations based on past experience, training, or even genetics.
Put it this way. It is impossible to continue to attract those harmful things into your life once you are aware. Being conscious of specific thoughts that we know will cause us harm, or limit us in any way, makes it impossible to repeat in the future. Once you have conscious awareness your brain will not allow you to continue along that path.
Critical Success Factors How do you master your emotions, your actions, and your life? If our thoughts are a critical factor in our success, what leads to our thoughts? Remember autopilot thoughts lead to harmful results based on our past training. If those autopilot thoughts lead to sub-par results, how can we change it?
Emotions lead to thoughts. Thoughts lead to Actions and Reactions. Actions lead to results…
One thing I’ve found extremely beneficial in this formula is meditation. One thing I’ve found to improve my productivity on a daily basis, thus my success is through meditation. I’ve tried several meditation techniques.
What I found is if I try to meditate by myself it is really difficult. Why is it difficult. We don’t realize how many autopilot thoughts are constantly going on in our head. When you sit in silence and concentrate on your breathing you become AWARE of all the chatter that is going on in your head.
Even though it is difficult it is beneficial. I find myself way more productive just with 10 minutes of silence and concentrating on my breathing.
According to Centerpointe “Over 1000 research studies Prove: Meditation is the most potent way to lower stress and create peace in these highly stressful times”.
One of the best ways I’ve found is listening to audio tracks. One of the best meditation techniques I’ve found is on this FREE AUDIO CD
Do you need a New Year Inspiration? As new years eve approaches, it’s natural to reflect on the previous year and start thinking, and dreaming of what we would like to accomplish in the next year coming up. Some people get the pen and paper out and make a list of new years resolutions.
What are your biggest successes this year? What are you most proud of this year? What memories make you smile from the past year?
What are your new years resolutions? Do they have to do with quitting something, or do they have to do with losing something? Is your new years resolution in line with your true passion, or is it to live in the moment? In other words, are you truly doing what you are meant to do in this world? Are you living your passion? Do you know what your passion is?
Have you ever thought about your legacy? Have you ever thought about what life would be like if you weren’t here. I used to think I would live forever. Over the past few years, life events have forced me to examine that illusion. (At least on this planet).
I’ve experienced the death of two people who have touched my life to the core. Each one of them died way before their time. This forced me to examine whether or not I was on the right path. It forced to ask myself if I was enjoying my life or was I waiting until everything was perfect. I realized I was working so hard on the future that I forget to enjoy the present.
How to Balance The Present With The Future?
There is no future. There is only the present. Does that mean we sit around and smoke pot, get smashed and go snowboarding all day? For some people, maybe it does mean that. Trust me, I have my days where I celebrate and party. But what about the nagging question of a better future? If we want a better future, there are some things we have to do to ensure that future will come true.
It is a balance. My problem used to be that I would only think of the future. I would sacrifice for a better life, more money, a better lifestyle. I wasn’t enjoying the present. The true trick is that you can have happiness in the present by wrapping yourself in the things that truly make you happy. If you are lucky enough to wake up every day and integrate your passions into your work and thus your future, I applaud you.
If you are not “lucky” enough to have that, when would now be a good time to do that? When would NOW be a good time to live your passion?
If You were Given $10 Million Dollars and 10 years to Live?
WHAT WOULD YOU DO WITH YOUR LIFE???
Ok, so now we know the exact day we are going to die and we have plenty of resources to do exactly what we would like to do daily with our lives. Most people when asked that question, know exactly what they would do with their lives.
They also know exactly what inspires them. The reality is that most people are not living the life that reflects what their true passions are. It is natural to think of all things you would buy if you had enough money.
There is nothing wrong with treating yourself with nice things, especially when you work so hard to earn them. But what really makes us happy is being fulfilled.
So how do you integrate your passion with your work and balance the present and the future? I’m not sure what your passions are. I would love to hear them in the comments section of this blog. The only way for me to express how I’ve worked out the balance between living in the present and planning for the future is with my story.
After several years I have found a way to integrate my passions with my daily work. It is not as difficult as it may seem in the world of the Internet. I heard somewhere that 2010 is “The year of the Entrepreneur.” I believe that in my heart. You can have your cake and eat it too.
I was always trying to make a ton of money so I could go after my dreams and live the lifestyle I felt I deserved. I learned that approach is backwards. (At least it was for me). My dad always told me to go “do what you love and the money will follow.” I never listened until finally it sunk in.
I have always wanted to fly. As a teenager I visited an aviation school and I let the price tag discourage me. I went onto college and graduated with a bachelors of arts. This piece of paper allowed to have my dream job waiting tables at Chili’s. (Sarcasm). I was at a really low point in my life, and my dad sent me some tapes from Tony Robbins. I was listening to the goal setting session and Tony asked…”have you ever wanted to fly a helicopter?”
Why yes… I have ALWAYS wanted to fly helicopters. I wrote that goal down and planted the seed. A few years later that dream became a reality. I sold all my things, moved across country to go to school to become a helicopter pilot. I basically bought myself a job. Don’t get me wrong. It is one of the greatest jobs in the world, but it is still a job.
With a mountain of school debt, I knew I had to start some sort of business if I wanted to live the lifestyle I knew I deserved. Again, I went about this all wrong and made a ton of mistakes UNTIL….
Until I finally listened to my dad’s advice…”Do what you love and the money will follow.”
How does this relate to $10 Million Dollars and 10 Years to Live?
To make a long story, even longer, I was finally able to integrate my true passion into my daily work and my business. I am a Coach and Trainer at heart. If I learn something I have a need to share it with the world. I finally figured out that there is a formula for success. I always knew this formula, but it wasn’t until I saw this post by Jonathan Budd that it really clicked home for me.
The formula: Knowledge + Skills + Mentality/Heart + a Network = Massive Success.
Only a few people will bring to the table the proper mentality with a heart to give back. That is an essential ingredient to the success formula. When you give back, when you are a “Go-Giver”, you have the proper ingredients for the rest of the success formula. If you are reading this far, you probably have the right mentality to hear about the rest of the success formula.
I realized I had to get some knowledge and get the skills to attract success into my life. After 10 years approaching my business all wrong, I finally got the skills and the knowledge to attract success into my life. The past few years I took my online education serious. I buried myself in every training I could get my hands on. While taking action on those strategies I got an even bigger education.
I was able to wrap this entire formula into my passion. I was able to be a coach and trainer at heart and empower other people. I found that the money rewards are great, but what really gets my juices going is being able to empower others with the knowledge, the skills, and the network to attract massive success. Those that are attracted to my teaching already bring the proper mentality with the heart to give back.
It is amazing seeing my students grasp the skills of social media marketing, like how to twitter and gain massive exposure through tribe syndication. What really gets my juices flowing is seeing them thrive, and improve. Seeing them believe in themselves because they finally have the skills to actually make money online.
Notice I did not talk about one crucial element of the success formula. That is your network. Even though I had all the skills to make a living online, it wasn’t until I implemented the concepts of Tribe Syndication (your network), that my business took off.
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Having a Powerful Network is extremely important for your success. What are your favorite quotes related to creating and leveraging that all powerful Mastermind Alliance? I’m looking forward to your quotes in the comment section.
“It’s better to hang out with people better than you. Pick out associates whose behavior is better than yours, and you’ll drift in that direction.” — Warren Buffett, Berkshire Hathaway, CEO
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Knowledge + Skills + Mentality/Heart + A Network = Massive Succes
This is the Secret Formula for Success. We’ve already talked about the first element of the success formula. Focusing on your own growth so you can share those skills with the world. Once you’ve acquired that knowledge that brings us to the second element of success. Bring those Skills to the world.
The skills needed for business, marketing online, social network marketing, or an internet marketing affiliate program are going to vary based on your niche, but the concept of the success formula is still the same. You need to acquire those skills and share them with the world.
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Quotes on Skill
“Every artist was first an amateur.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson, Poet
“The only real security that a man will have in this world is a reserve of knowledge, experience, and ability.” –Henry Ford
“We must have perseverance and above all confidence in ourselves. We must believe that we are gifted for something and that this thing must be attained.” — Marie Curie, physicist
“I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel” — Maya Angelou, Poet
“Success comes to the man who grits his teeth, squares his jaw and says, ‘There is a way for me and, by jingo, I’ll find it’” –Clifford Sloan, Publisher
I’m looking forward to YOUR Quotes. A great place to post your quotes is in the comment section. Remember to Retweet.